Pain is created by the physical brain(subconscious mind) as well as disappointment, anger, resentment and disease. When we walk in the world as spiritual beings we know this however, when we forget this we become victims of circumstance. A victim of circumstance is allowing yourself to be disappointed by others. Being angry at someone or something creates victimhood thus you are angry because of... versus seeing the truth through the veil of illusion. Why are you angry? Anger is a symptom of not seeing, hearing or being the truth, when you are out of integrity with yourself you will experience anger. We anger easily when we have an unfulfilled expectation because we are internalizing I did not get what I wanted and now I must go into self judgement or blaming others to feel validated or in some cases justified.
Recently I found myself holding anger for another, I could see they were in an enormous amount of emotional pain and I was angry at the person/persons responsible for creating their pain. In the moment I projected my anger I was giving into the illusion that something is/was wrong and that this individual was being victimized. What I know with every fiber in my being is that this was a co-created experience and there are NO victims...EVER! There was nothing circumstantial happening here at all, this was a case of individuals getting together and not honoring who they really are. When we look outside of ourselves for happiness, love and acceptance we will find this expectation cannot be sustained because it is NOT coming from within. People will always disappoint you if you give them the responsibility of creating your happiness. This is your personal journey and you will always have free will as it was your agreement upon taking on a human body/experience. Physiologically, I suffered body aches and discomfort from my projected thoughts, I was very tense until I noticed I was carrying the responsibility for another in my body. My shoulders and back was very tense until I had this realization and the very moment I was reminded of the truth, I felt better immediately.
What is the truth? The truth is and will always be we are one and love is the blueprint to all happiness, joy, excitement, compassion faith and your relationship to the creator of this beautiful Universe.
When we hurt or when a loved one is hurting remember the truth. When you are reminded of how special you are and remember that you are mighty and powerful, you will remember you were made in the image and likeness and that makes you whole and perfect. I am a mentor, teacher, student, healer, intuitive guide and I know we are one. I know as I share this perspective I am admitting that even I forgot the steps to my dance and starting vibrating to anger and resentment toward another because I was let down and expected these spiritual beings to act more spiritual than not. There's only one thing wrong with that statement, the word "ACT". Spirituality is a way of being not an act. My dear friend was not honoring themselves and that lead to others not honoring them as well.
Although spiritual we are still making choices from our humanness (limited perspective). If a person is not loving self, you can never expect them to love you, NEVER! If a person is not respecting themselves, DO NOT expect them to show you respect. In the law of giving and receiving, you will never be able to give what you don't have, it doesn't exist. How you interpret what you get/give is something different AND you will never give what you don't have.
Today, I am remembering all the steps to my dance. I Am mighty and I Am love!
Be love, Be well, Be amazing!
